對於「我終於了解...(1)」的感想
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￭ 非常感謝e-mail給我這篇小品的人－因為您的寬宏與熱心，又介紹我認識這個網站，讓我生命更增添許多泉源。再次感謝您！ 「我不能要求別人來愛我，但我可以想辦法增加自己可以令人愛的特質。」這句話證明生命是有其積極面的，不要輕言放棄。 (Joy Wen) |
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￭ Thank you for sharing the essays with me. They make us look at life differently. Yes, no matter how you slice it, there will always be two sides. I have learned that life itself will always be a learning process. However, to keep what we have learned is rather difficult sometimes. The wise seems to handle the learning process so efficiently. And we, the ordinary people, tend to forget what hurt or taught us in the past despite the fact that the past was only two days ago. I have also learned that the learning process will keep us young, active, happy, and always eager to reach a level we have never been to before. |
￭ 謝謝你和我分享這篇文章。 它使我們從另一個角度看人生。是的，不論你切得多薄，事情總是具有兩面。我學到一點，就是人生總是一個學習的過程。但要留住我們所學到的東西，有時卻不是那麼容易。聰明的人似乎能夠很有效率的掌握學習的過程。至於我們這些平凡人，往往容易忘記過去所受的傷和所學的教訓，即或這些僅是兩天前的事。 我也學到，學習的過程可以使我們保持年輕、積極、快樂，並一直渴望達到我們所未曾達到的境界。 |
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(工研院工安衛中心于樹偉主任) |
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￭ 簡單明瞭，卻又引人深思，非常棒的話語。 (Huck) |
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￭ This is lovely, warm experiences sharing field. Thank you for informing me. I would like to share one thing that shocked me recently. One of my best friend passed away because of liver cancer few days ago. He used to work as a circuit designer / director in ITRI and a design house spun off from ITRI. Exactly 6 months ago, doctor told his wife that they couldn't make any operation for him due to the location of the cancer. His life would be as short as 6 months expectedly. No one believe this could be happening to a man who doesn't drink wine, smoke at all and with the same age as me, 41-year-old! Only thing could be blamed for would be he was working too hard. What's wrong with that? After months struggling and trying of several Chinese traditional medicines, he still couldn't make it. Sadly I realize that life is fickle like that. He had too many things to do. I've started to investigate what is really valuable in my life. Amazingly I've found I've stayed with family shortly and didn't even enjoy any quality time with them ever. I need to reach my wife, my daughters, my brother, my sisters and all of the rest of my relatives closely to really understand what are they. I need to spare some time to study books that I've hoped to go through since long time ago. I wanna make some interior decoration change of my house that will please me more. I wanna take breaks whenever the works puzzle me. I would chat with my friends honestly, frequently. ...... I tell you what, I've done that. I feel so great now. Thanks for the best friend. |
￭ 這是一個分享可愛、溫馨經驗的園地。謝謝你通知我。我想分享一件最近震撼我的事。 前幾天我的一個好友因肝癌過世。他過去是工研院的電路設計師和主管，後來在工研院的衍生設計室工作。六個月前，醫師告訴他太太說，由於肝癌的位置，他們無法為他施行手術，他的生命可能只剩六個月。無人能夠置信這些事竟會發生在一個從不喝酒、抽煙的人身上，而他和我一樣年僅41歲！該怪的只有一件事，就是他工作太賣力了。那又有什麼錯呢？經過幾個月的掙扎，試過一些中醫，他還是過世了。 我很悲傷地了解到人生竟是如此無常，他還有許多未竟之志。我已開始探索什麼事在我的人生中是真正有價值的。我很驚訝地發現，我和家人相處的時間很短，而這些時間也無品質可言。我需要就近我的妻子、女兒、兄弟、姊妹們和其他親人，好了解他們。我需要空出時間來讀我長久以來希望要讀的書。我想要改變家裡的裝潢，使我覺得更愜意。我想在工作困擾我的時候，暫時休息一下。我想和友人們多多誠懇地聊一聊...... 你知道嗎？我已經這麼做了。現在我覺得棒極了。感謝我的好友。 |
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(本信來自一位園區高階主管) |
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